Choosing Fiduciaries and Beneficiaries: Insights from the Elder Law Report

Choosing the right fiduciaries and beneficiaries is a crucial step in estate planning. This process involves selecting individuals who will manage your assets and carry out your wishes after your passing. Here are some key factors to consider to ensure your estate plan is both effective and reflective of your intentions.

Understanding Fiduciaries

Fiduciaries are individuals or institutions appointed to manage your assets and make decisions on your behalf if you are unable to do so. Common fiduciary roles include:

  • Agents (under Power of Attorney): Handle financial and medical decisions.
  • Executors: Administer your will after your death.
  • Trustee: Manages any trusts you establish

Key Traits of a Fiduciary:

  • Trustworthiness: The most critical quality, as this person will have significant control over your assets.
  • Reliability: They must be dependable and willing to act when needed.
  • Capability: Strong organizational and interpersonal skills are essential, especially when handling legal and financial matters.

The Importance of Communication

It’s vital to communicate with your chosen fiduciaries to ensure they are willing and able to serve. If a fiduciary is unaware of their designation or unwilling to serve, it can lead to complications and delays in executing your estate plan. always have open discussions with your potential fiduciaries about their roles and responsibilities.

Backup Plans

Designating backup fiduciaries is a wise move. If your primary choice cannot serve when the time comes, having alternates ensures continuity in managing your affairs without court intervention. For instance, if your primary agent under a power of attorney resigns or is unable to act, a backup plan can step in seamlessly.

Choosing Beneficiaries

Beneficiaries are people or entities who will receive your assets after your death. Here are things to consider:

  • Fairness and Intent: Decide how you want to distribute your assets. It doesn’t have to be equal; it should reflect your wishes and your beneficiaries’ needs.
  • Capabilities: Consider if the beneficiary can manage the inheritance responsibly. For example, leaving a large sum to someone who is not financially savvy might not be the best decision.
  • Specific Needs: Some beneficiaries might have special needs or circumstances that require different considerations, such as trusts or structured payouts.

Flexibility in Estate Planning

Your estate plan should be adaptable to changes in your life. Regular reviews and updates ensure that it remains aligned with your current circumstances and wishes. Major life events such as marriage, divorce, births, and deaths can necessitate changes to your plan.

Avoiding Guardianship

Proactively naming your fiduciaries helps avoid the need for a court-appointed guardian, which can be a lengthy and expensive process. By choosing your fiduciaries in advance, you maintain control over who will manage your affairs if you become incapacitated.

Practical Example

Consider this scenario: a client with two children, one an accountant and the other a nurse. The client may appoint the accountant child as the financial power of attorney and the nurse child as the medical power of attorney. This approach leverages their strengths and ensures the right person is handling the appropriate responsibilities.


Choosing the right fiduciaries and beneficiaries is integral to effective estate planning. It requires thoughtful consideration, clear communication, and regular updates to ensure your plan reflects your current wishes and circumstances. Consulting with experienced attorneys can provide guidance and peace of mind as you make these important decisions.

For personalized advice and to discuss your unique situation, contact McIntyre Elder Law. Our team is here to help you navigate these important decisions and create a plan that preserves your legacy.

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Jane Dearwester

Elder Law Litigation Attorney

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Jordan Bentley

Estate Planning & Elder Law Attorney

McIntyre Elder Law

Shelby, NC

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