The Thanksgiving Table: Keeping Your Family Together with an Estate Plan

As Thanksgiving approaches, it’s a time when many of us gather around the table to celebrate family, togetherness, and gratitude. But imagine this: What if one day, your family’s holiday gatherings changed forever because of unplanned estate issues? Without an estate plan in place, your loved ones could face a maze of probate, financial struggles, or even disagreements that may change family traditions for good. 

This Thanksgiving, let’s look at how a well-crafted estate plan can keep your family together – at the dinner table and beyond. 

The Uninvited Guest: Probate

When you pass away without a will or trust, the state takes control of your estate, deciding who inherits your assets. This process, known as probate, can be a lengthy and expensive ordeal, causing stress at a time when your family needs peace. 

Out-of-Pocket Costs

Probate costs include court fees, attorney fees, and other expenses that can take a bite out of the inheritance you meant to leave behind. 

Waiting Game

Probate can last from six months to two years, leaving your family in a holding pattern and delaying their access to what’s rightfully theirs.

Family Feuds

Disagreements over “who gets what” can turn even the closest families into courtroom rivals. Avoid letting probate spoil the harmony you’ve worked hard to build. 

Protecting the Kids’ Table

One of the greatest concerns for parents is what happens to minor children if something were to happen. Without a will to designate guardianship, a judge will decide who cares for your children, and it may not be someone you would have chosen.

Personalized Protection

An estate plan lets you name a trusted person to raise your children, providing them with stability and comfort during difficult times. 

Avoiding Legal Battles

Clear instructions can prevent family disputes that can drain resources and leave emotional scars.

The Turkey Left Cold: Unprotected Assets

Think about your home, savings, and other assets – all things that contribute to your family’s stability. Without a clear estate plan, these assets can be vulnerable to creditors, taxes, and unexpected expenses.


Debt Deductions

Without an estate plan, your estate may first be used to settle debts, reducing what’s left for loved ones.

The Loss of the Family Home

Without proper planning, your family home might need to be sold to cover expenses or taxes. Setting up a trust can protect assets like your home from being liquidated.

Costly Estate Taxes

A strategic estate plan can minimize estate taxes, helping ensure more of your assets remain in your family’s hands.

Your Seat at the Table: Medical and Financial Decisions

Imagine a sudden accident or illness leaves you unable to make medical or financial decisions. Who would step in? Without advance directives, like a healthcare power of attorney, the court might decide for you – or family members could face tough decisions without your guidance.


Peace of Mind for Loved Ones

Clear instructions through a living will and health care power of attorney allow you to express your wishes, sparing your family from making difficult choices. 

Financial Safeguarding

Clear instructions through a living will and health care power of attorney allow you to express your wishes, sparing your family from making difficult choices. 

Leave a Legacy of Gratitude

Creating an estate plan isn’t just about avoiding the pitfalls; it’s about ensuring that your family can gather each Thanksgiving without worry, honoring the legacy you built together. With proper planning, you can leave a legacy that reflects your values, supporting your loved ones in the years to come.

Key Steps to Keep Your Family’s Table Full:

  • Utilize estate planning tools such as Lady Bird Deeds or a trust to protect assets, bypass probate, and ensure privacy.
  • Designate powers of attorney, both general durable and healthcare, to safeguard your medical and financial choices.
  • Create a will as your last line of defense to guide asset distribution and appoint an executor in the event that a probate estate needs to be open

Be Thankful – and Prepared

This Thanksgiving, reflect on the importance of family, and consider how an estate plan can help keep your loved ones together in good times and tough times alike.

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Jordan McIntyre

Elder Law Attorney

McIntyre Elder Law

Shelby, NC

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Greg McIntyre, JD, MBA

Meet Greg McIntyre

Greg McIntyre, founder of McIntyre Elder Law, is more than just an attorney. As a Navy Veteran, father to six kids, and a loving husband, he values family deeply. This drives his commitment to helping clients safeguard their futures and pass down legacies.

Greg has a passion to help people. Beyond just legal advice, he loves having conversations and strives to build a long-term relationship with every clients that comes through his door.

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